Wow you are some amazing folks....I have one dd that has Spina Bifida and is in a wheelchair and sometimes I feel it sucks the life out of me. I can't imagine how much work taking care of three would be, God Bless you, Love suffers long and hard for people we love! If you do go to Dollywood please let us know how wheelchair friendly it is, we have been talking about going there.Hugs to you!